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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our guests today.
The best stylist in Korea, Han Hye Yeon!
Hello.
- Singer Yu Bin! - Yu Bin!
(Yu Bin, from Wonder Girls member to a soloist)
Peniel and Jung Il Hoon of BTOB!
(Peniel and Jung Il Hoon of BTOB)
A young Ghanaian man, Sam Okyere!
Hello.
Sam Okyere!
Some of our guests today have deep connection...
- with Hello. - That's right.
- Peniel, we counselled you. - Yes.
What was your worry?
- Hair loss. - Right.
- That's when he came on the show. - That's right.
- Back then... - It got much better.
How much have you recovered?
- I think I've recovered 70 percent. - That's great.
- It got better after revealing it? - Yes.
- I'm relieved. - I didn't even go to a hospital.
- I see. - Good for you.
- I'm glad you were here. - I came to feel more comfortable.
Sam, you are deeply connected...
- to Hello, right? - Absolutely.
I came back to Hello after five years.
I made my debut on Hello.
You appeared on Hello because of his friend's worry.
- You were sitting over there. - Yes. I was sitting right there.
Sitting here feels so new,
- and I feel great. - Exactly. We raised you.
Thank you. I am so grateful.
We're practically like his parents. Call me "Mom".
- Mom. - Good.
- That's weird. - Right.
She looks a little like my mom too.
- She's the same age as your mom. - Is she?
- How old is your mom? - How old is she?
She was born in 1966.
- Hey. She's one year older than me. - Really?
You really are like my mom.
(I'm sorry I didn't recognize you, Mom.)
Our staff prepared the video of him when he came here last time.
- I'm so embarrassed. - Let's watch.
Do Korean people often misunderstand you?
- That's Sam's friend. - Right.
When I say that I'm from Africa,
some people seem to think I'm below them.
Hello. Where are you from?
Hello.
(Embarrassed)
Have you ever watched Hello?
I know who Shin Dong Yeob is.
(I'm older than him.)
"I know who Shin Dong Yeob is."
- You were much younger than now. - You're right.
(Club Hello)
- His friend looks like Will Smith. - Right.
Oh, gosh. I'm so embarrassed.
Sam hasn't changed at all.
(You look cute.)
- Hye Yeon, have you ever been... - Yes, Yeong Ja?
perplexed because someone asked you about styling...
since you're a stylist?
- A lot of people ask me that. - You get that a lot, right?
In fact, I've been doing a segment with Tae Gyun...
- on his radio show. - That's right.
She gives the listeners tips on how to dress nicely.
However, I have to brace myself because of their questions.
For example, "What should I wear..."
"when I go back to the supermarket to return something I bought?"
"I lost my front tooth. Please tell me the fashion look that makes..."
- "me look like I didn't lose it." - Is there such fashion look?
- People ask me questions like that. - So what was your advice...
on dressing to prevent people from noticing...
- the missing tooth? - I said to wear a hoodie backwards.
(Wear a hoodie backwards!)
- Wear a hoodie backwards? - Like this?
- Wear a hoodie backwards? - That's funny.
(She gave an explicit solution as the super star stylist.)
- That's amazing. - Yu Bin...
- hasn't come here for a long time. - It's been a really long time.
- My new song title is "Lady". - Great.
The genre of the song is city pop,
which was popular in the 1970s and 1980s.
Since she came here after a while, we should listen to her.
- Of course. - Pleases show us.
(Please show us.)
"Lady".
("Lady" by Yu Bin)
(Yu Bin still has the groove.)
(Enchanting)
(Confident)
(Oh, my gosh.)
(I'm a busy lady)
(Everyone is mesmerized.)
We have three keywords today. Please show us the keywords.
- "The Woman's Obsession". - "He Won't Stop Talking".
"The Clingy Man".
Hello. I'm a married man in my 30s,
and I live in Gongju, South Chungcheong Province.
One day, I went fishing with my wife to get some fresh air.
"Honey, listen. Fishing is all about patience."
"And perseverance. Do you understand?"
"Gosh. I don't like fishing."
"This isn't fun at all. Let's just go home."
"Oh, my. Honey, look. I caught a fish."
"I said I caught a fish."
That was the day when the nightmare began.
"Honey, where did you go so early?"
"I'm fishing right now. Nice! I caught one. I'm hanging up."
"Honey, I'm home. Where are you?"
- "Gosh. I'm fishing. Bye." - She got hooked on fishing.
- I brought it upon myself. - That's right.
"Honey, you're off work today, right? Wake up. Let's go."
"Where are we going?"
"Where? There's a fishing contest in Busan. Let's go."
- "A fishing contest"? - Whenever I'm off work,
my wife drags me to different areas in Korea for fishing.
"Honey, I'm so tired. Let's stop fishing."
"What? You want to stop fishing? Then let's not speak to each other."
After that, my wife didn't speak to me for a month.
What went wrong? And how could this happen?
Please help me change my wife back to how she used to be.
(That's unusual.)
Sam, is there anything you got hooked on?
On social media, you can watch...
- viral videos, right? - "Viral videos".
Once you start watching them, you can't stop.
- Right. - You can watch them all night long.
I keep watching those videos.
- Exactly. - You can follow links to videos.
There are so many videos online, and I think I'm hooked on them.
You're hooked on watching videos.
I want to fall in love with a girl too, but it's not easy.
- Is that so? - Yes.
You don't have a girlfriend, or are you seeing someone?
- Well... I'm still searching. - Do you not have a girlfriend?
- Are you searching now? - Yes.
- I'm searching now. - All right. Wait a while.
- "I'm searching now." - I'll fix you up with someone.
- Are you serious? - Of course.
(Could his life become happier?)
Hye Yeon.
Are you free tomorrow?
(For whom is she arranging the meeting?)
Sam, can you meet me at Hannam-dong tomorrow?
I'm a little nervous, but I'll be glad to.
If you decide to go on a date with Hye Yeon...
with high expectations tomorrow,
Yeong Ja might be there instead of her.
Don't get your hopes up.
(My hopes are gone.)
- Our guest, please come out. - Please come out.
(Who is worried about his wife who is hooked on fishing?)
(Bae Jeong Hyeon)
(Welcome)
Please tell us how serious your wife's obsession is.
My wife was an ordinary wife.
She used to do cross-stitching and house chores.
- Cross-stitching? - Yes.
- That was her hobby. - It's very different from fishing.
Since she always stayed at home,
I felt bad for her, so I took her fishing...
since I enjoy pole-and-line fishing.
However, you have to...
sit in the same spot for a long time when you do pole-and-line fishing.
So she hated it.
I tried to find a more active kind of fishing method...
that both my wife and I can enjoy doing together.
And I thought of lure fishing.
- Lure fishing? - Yes.
Lure fishing is a fishing method that uses a fake bait...
- instead of live bait. - That's correct.
- You chase the fish, right? - Yes.
After I taught her how to do it,
she got a taste of fishing. That's when the disaster began.
So it was you that started it.
I used to go fishing only twice a month...
- at the most. - He didn't go fishing often.
Right. That's moderate.
But my wife goes fishing...
- 300 out of 365 days. - What?
- 300 days a year? - Yes.
- This is my wife's daily routine. - That's too much.
She wakes up between 4am and 5am.
She packs her fishing gear and goes fishing alone...
on her motorcycle or electric kickboard.
She goes fishing on an electric kickboard?
That's unbelievable.
However, when the sun is too hot...
in the afternoon, she comes back home.
- Does she stay home after that? - She comes home,
but she goes out again and comes back between 9pm and 10pm.
She comes home only when it's getting too dark to see ahead.
But that's not all.
She eats dinner when she comes home between 9pm and 10pm.
While eating, she cleans her fishing gear...
such as her fishing rod.
- She cleans her fishing gear? - Yes.
And while cleaning them, she fixes her eyes on a fishing show.
At the same time, she cleans her fishing gear with her hands...
and chews the food with her mouth.
My goodness.
(She is almost addicted to fishing.)
Your wife drags you around to go fishing,
according to what I heard before.
My wife has a driver's license.
But she hasn't driven since she got it.
So I guess she just needs someone to drive the car.
We went to Gwangju, Chungju, Busan,
Wanju, and Gimhae.
- Gimhae too? - Yes. The areas are quite far...
- to drive to and back in a day. - That must be tiring.
She enjoys kayak fishing, boat fishing, and lure fishing.
She catches flounder in spring,
bass in summer,
webfoot octopus, cuttlefish, and flatfish...
- in autumn, - She catches that too?
- She must be skillful. - And in winter,
she catches carp at an indoor fishing place.
My goodness.
- She's like a fisherwoman. - Yes.
However, since you like fishing too,
isn't it good to share a hobby with your wife?
That's...
(Laughing)
It's good to go fishing with my wife.
However, I work double shifts.
- I work 2 out of 3 shifts. - You have a job.
I work 12 hours a day.
Whether I get off work at 7am or 7pm,
- She drags you out. - I have to go fishing with her.
- I can't... - She spends all your free time.
That's right. For example, even when I get off work at 7am...
and come home, I have to go fishing with her.
I drive between 500km and 600km on average.
- You can't even get any sleep. - Yes.
(Her jaw drops.)
Your wife is busy going fishing,
and you're busy with your work.
I wonder how you look after your children.
We have a son who is in sixth grade...
and a daughter who is in third grade.
On weekdays, they don't need much of our help.
We just have to send them to school in the morning.
They have dinner at their academy.
Right. Kids these days do that.
But on weekends,
my wife and I go on a two-day fishing trip.
- So our children have to stay home. - Do they stay home alone?
Yes.
Really?
(The children stay home alone.)
(Please stop my wife.)
Let's meet his wife. Hello.
Hello.
(Who is his wife who is obsessed with fishing?)
Do you understand why your husband...
is worried or not?
I don't think it's a worry.
Of course you don't.
Everyone in that seat says the same thing.
(Of course. I knew you would say that.)
Why?
When I go fishing,
fishing by the waterside makes me feel so good.
My mind becomes clear,
and it feels so refreshing.
(My mind becomes clear, and it feels so refreshing.)
- You can just drink soda. - She's right.
(Drink soda when you're frustrated.)
- If that's what you want... - It's so refreshing...
- to drink soda under a tree. - Exactly.
You can feel that at home too.
- Resolve it by eating food. - You can drink cola.
She can drink other soda drinks.
- Does it feel different? - Yes.
I get a feeling when I catch a fish.
- Please explain. - The feeling on the hands.
My heart beats fast.
- When I'm holding my fishing rod... - When a fish bites the bait?
No. Before it bites the bait.
- Before it bites the bait? - While waiting for a fish to bite?
When I have that feeling, I always catch a fish.
He said you were bored at first.
Back then, my husband did pole-and-line fishing.
All he did was sit back and play with his phone.
I had nothing to do there.
- That's how the fishing method is. - You didn't like fishing at first.
What made you like fishing?
I caught my first fish one week after I started to fish.
And I couldn't forget how it felt.
- Did you think of it all the time? - Yes.
Also, I was the only one there who caught a fish.
I realized what makes fishing fun.
- You felt accomplished. - Yes.
I thought, "I didn't know I was good at this."
What are you best at doing? Lure fishing?
- Bass fishing. - Bass?
- I catch bass mostly. - What kind of fishing method...
do you use to catch bass? Do you sit and wait as well?
No. You have to move around different fishing spots.
I feel accomplished when I catch a fish...
on my own at a fishing spot I chose.
Those who enjoy fishing seem very proud of themselves.
They compare the sizes of fish they caught.
I have caught a 60cm-long bass.
- 60cm? - How big is that?
- It's 60cm long, so... - It must be this big.
Catching a 60cm long bass is really hard to do.
My goodness.
How long is that fish?
What is it? Is it a carp?
- That's a bass. - I see.
The fish looks big,
and she looks really different.
Pardon?
- You look different in the photo. - Different?
Cool!
She looks so stylish.
Hye Yeon, what do you think of her fashion style?
- She looks amazing. It's unique. - She looks gorgeous.
- She looks like an idol star. - Exactly.
- You have swag. - It looks like an album cover.
It looks like the cover of a fishing magazine.
(The best example of a magazine cover)
- What? - My goodness.
(She's holding two large fish.)
Look at her pose. She looks like she's saying, "I caught them."
- It looks like a song album cover. - Exactly.
A fish song album. "I have swag."
When she catches fish,
you must eat them together. I guess you eat a lot of fish.
- That's true. - Are you envious?
- Yes. I love sashimi. - You eat a lot of fish, right?
When my wife goes boat fishing,
she usually catches 10kg of webfoot octopus.
She goes boat fishing 3 or 4 times, not just 1 time.
So she catches around 30kg of webfoot octopus.
Then we have to eat webfoot octopus for four months.
(It's a disaster.)
He must be sick of it.
I bet he feels like he's turning into a webfoot octopus.
Whenever I speak to the person next to me,
I smell like webfoot octopus.
I don't even want to look toward the ocean now.
- You ate a lot of it for too long. - I understand.
- That looks delicious. - It's blanched webfoot octopus.
It's good with chili paste with vinegar. It looks delicious.
- It's good with soju. - That's right.
Stir-fried webfoot octopus.
- It looks good. - I love it.
- They put it in ramyeon too. - Even in ramyeon?
- What's that? - That's fish roe.
Oh, I think it's...
I started getting tired of webfoot octopus already.
How long do you eat food like this?
For between 4 and 5 months.
- Oh, dear. - They put it in every dish.
In every dish they make.
Do your children like webfoot octopus?
They liked it at first, but...
They must've gotten tired of it.
They said they were tired of it later.
Do you feel the same when you catch webfoot octopus?
- Yes. - Really?
I catch cuttlefish too while catching webfoot octopus.
Webfoot octopus feels like tapping and stretching.
Cuttlefish is more like a thud.
- "A thud"? - Yes.
- What about flatfish? - Flapping.
I see.
- Flapping. - What about bass?
- Tap, tap. - I see.
That's unbelievable.
It seems like you go fishing almost every day.
Is it not physically exhausting?
Not at all.
I can't go to the gym since I go fishing often.
So I work out at home instead.
- For fishing? - Yes.
She might work out her arms with the fish she caught.
- With fish? - Like this.
- You went overboard. - I know.
I think I went overboard too.
Are you pressured to be funny?
No, I'm not.
(I'll try to relax a little.)
When you go back to reality,
you have to take care of your kids who are in 6th and 3rd grade.
Don't they still need their mom?
That's true,
but before I go fishing, I make some food for them.
And I call them often.
On weekdays, they don't need much care.
They come home in the evening. But on the weekends,
I ask their aunt and grandmother to take care of them...
while I'm fishing.
- Their aunt and grandmother? - Your mother-in-law...
- takes care of your kids? - Yes.
Shouldn't one of you stay with the kids?
- Of course. - Wouldn't that be better?
Why don't you let your husband stay home?
Then I can't go fishing.
- You can't drive. - I can't drive.
Your kids must want to make some memories with you.
Do you ever take them with you?
Do you try to spend more time with them?
In the beginning, I took them with me a few times.
But they hated it.
- They did? - They didn't understand.
- What should they do? - They both hated it.
But don't you have a little fun too when you follow her?
- How is it? - For me to have fun,
we should do something together.
When I follow her...
and try to catch some fish,
she screams, "Come here and take a picture of me!"
- A picture of her? - A picture of her?
Then I have to paddle in a kayak...
and take pictures of her.
I have to take 50 to 60 pictures for 30 to 40 minutes...
and show my wife.
It's for the social media.
She's a bit obsessed.
The pictures are for the social media?
She says, if she uploads pictures on the social media...
and is wearing the same clothes in every picture,
people look down on her.
So she usually orders 6 to 7 outfits at once.
- Fishing outfits? - Yes.
Once, she ordered 16 pairs of leggings at once.
She orders matching clothes for us too.
I'm not really interested,
but she forces me to wear them...
- so she can upload the pictures. - I have a question.
Does she have a lot of followers?
She has more than 5,000 followers.
- That's a lot. - That's a lot.
Do you "like" her photos too?
I sometimes do. But sometimes,
my wife logs in to my account and "likes" her pictures.
(She logs into her husband's account.)
- She really is obsessed. - Unbelievable.
She loves attention.
She is an attention seeker.
Don't you feel ashamed?
No.
It's no big deal.
When I wasn't on TV for a year,
I wrote on the internet,
"I want to see Shin Dong Yeob."
I didn't feel ashamed either.
While you're in a kayak, no one can see your pants, right?
Are there looks that fish especially like?
Let's ask Hye Yeon.
- I guess showy clothes... - Showy?
would attract fish more.
What do you think?
They do see your clothes. According to the weather...
and the color of the water, I decide what to wear.
(The woman is wearing pink leggings!)
If I may ask, is your wife working?
- No. - She could sell webfoot octopuses.
Exactly.
She buys a lot of equipment...
- and clothes. - It must cost a lot.
- It must be a big financial burden. - I'm sure.
She spends about 2,000 dollars a month on fishing.
(2,000 dollars a month)
(It's as much as a salary.)
- On fishing? - Every month?
- By herself? - Yes.
- Right. - On fishing equipment only.
On top of that, you need money for the gas too.
- Transportation fee. - Food too.
I drive 500 to 600km a month,
and it costs 500 to 600 dollars, not even considering my commuting.
- It's 2,500 dollars now. - Also,
- she has 50 lure fishing rods, - 50?
20 carp fishing rods,
and three kayaks.
- They're kayaks. - They look professional.
- She has three kayaks. - Unbelievable.
It's shocking.
My goodness.
- It looks like a store. - It looks like a store.
- It does. - It really does.
- That's a lot. - They're floats.
What's that?
Their wedding photo is surrounded by floats.
(Floats are everywhere.)
(Embarrassed)
(Too bad.)
- Unbelievable. - She said...
she wanted to try kayak fishing,
so I bought her a 3,000-dollar kayak.
But she didn't like its color.
One day, there were two more kayaks in our garage.
- They were the same model. - Just in different colors?
- Yes. - It was an impulse purchase.
I admire the husband.
How could you let her get away with that?
Your wife spends 2,500 to 3,000 dollars a month on her hobby.
Do you have enough money for the living expenses?
We don't.
60 to 70 percent of my salary goes to my wife's hobby.
After paying the bills and the kids' tuitions,
we're left with 700 to 1,000 dollars.
All of that money is supposed to be spent on food.
But because she bought the kayaks,
I had to eat at my company...
on the weekends too.
- My goodness. - To save money?
They can barely eat.
Ma'am, did you know about it?
- Or did you just find out? - She's glaring.
I knew about it.
I thought we could get by that month.
Also, I started working...
- What do you do? - from home.
- What do you do? - I peel chestnuts.
- You peel chestnuts? - Gongju is famous for chestnuts.
- They're very large. - I earn a dollar per kilo.
I make 400 to 500 dollars a month.
It's better than nothing.
- I think you should peel more. - Tell us.
You should peel chestnuts all night.
I tell her,
"We should save money for our later years."
Every time, she says,
"We should have fun while we're young."
(We should have fun while we're young.)
Some people think you shouldn't save too much money.
You only live once. I think we should...
have fun.
I don't think there's any problem.
We can get by.
There is a problem. You're spending too much money.
Your husband eats at his company.
You have two kids too.
If you were on your own, it'd be no problem.
When your husband retires,
you might not be able to afford your hobby anymore.
We'll receive a pension.
(Carefree)
What kind of life do you dream of having in your later years?
I want to live near the waters.
I also have a plan.
I want to get a boating license.
- To drive a boat? - Yes.
An electric boat. To drive a boat,
I need to live near the waters.
Why don't you just...
work on a deep-sea fishing vessel?
Then she could fish as much as she wants.
Don't you feel a bit uncomfortable?
Even though you make a little money by peeling chestnuts...
I feel a bit bad,
but I enjoy fishing.
I hope he understands me.
Don't you think you're a bit selfish?
Is it okay if your husband takes up a hobby?
- No. - No?
He can't?
(That's ridiculous.)
- Someone is sitting next to her. - Who are you?
- I'm his little sister. - You're his little sister.
You must hate your sister-in-law.
- You hate her, right? - She's the kids' aunt.
Be honest.
Actually, I'm the one who is the most concerned.
I should be the one on stage.
Whenever my brother isn't working,
he has to go fishing with his wife.
- As their kids are left home, - Exactly.
they always call me.
I work and sometimes meet people.
I often have to cancel my plans...
- because of them. - I see.
They really don't seem to care about me.
I live in Cheonan.
(I live in Cheonan.)
- You don't live in Gongju? - I don't.
I work at a hair salon,
- and it's hard work. - Of course.
It's so exhausting to go back and forth.
Once, I even got sick.
I was sick in bed,
and they showed up in Cheonan.
They said they couldn't leave their kids alone...
and asked me to take care of them.
She always sounds so innocent.
"You're coming, right?"
"I'm leaving now." She's always like that.
I can't say no because I'm worried about their kids.
She's worried about her nephew and niece.
What's the biggest problem?
I'm divorced,
and I have kids.
- You have kids? - Yes.
I don't live with my kids,
so I can't see them every day.
And my sister-in-law takes away the time I'm supposed to...
- spend with my kids. - My goodness.
- I mean... - I mean...
Why can't you say no clearly?
- I did. - What did you tell her?
- I said no. - I want to hear what you said.
I said, "Stop asking me, seriously."
- The Chungcheong accent... - Turn off your phone.
A person from Seoul would say, "Stop asking me!"
- The accent is different. - "Stop asking me."
(Stop asking me.) subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
"Stop asking me."
It makes the other person think that there's still a chance.
You must have known that...
it was bothering your sister-in-law.
I do feel bad.
- And? Then you shouldn't ask. - "I do feel bad?"
I like fishing. I'm sure she can understand me.
(My goodness.)
You don't seem to take this matter seriously.
This is cheating.
Your heart is somewhere else.
This is not a hobby for you.
Fishing has taken over your life.
- It's like you're cheating. - And you post it on social media.
Your husband is very understanding.
That's how you should think.
It's like this.
In the past, whenever someone was addicted to gambling,
he would feel sorry and say that he would cut off his wrists.
He would promise to do whatever he can to change.
But you are selfish beyond reason.
- It's incomprehensible. - You are very selfish.
Your wife...
is not willing to give up fishing.
Aren't you worried?
What I am worried about the most is this.
To fish, you have to go to remote places...
- and thickets. - Right.
He's worried about her safety because he loves her.
She could miss her footing or run into a snake.
One time,
she was suffering from high fever.
I gave her medicine and went to work.
I was so worried that I took an early leave...
and went home.
(How was his bedridden wife?)
Her fishing rod was gone, and she was gone too.
- She went fishing again? - Yes.
I was waiting for her to call me at home.
I assumed that she went fishing again.
But I got a call from an emergency room.
- Emergency room? - Yes.
- Why did she take the fishing rod? - What about the fishing rod?
(Why did she take the fishing rod to the hospital?)
While fishing at the riverbank,
- she passed out from high fever. - Did she pass out?
Someone who was taking a stroll there called 911, and she got...
- rushed to the hospital. - Thank goodness.
I had fever in the morning, so I took medicine.
The fever subsided.
The weather was too nice,
so I couldn't just stay home. I thought about going fishing.
I thought I'd be fine when I go outside. So I drove my motorcycle.
When I arrived, the moment I grabbed my rod, I blacked out.
You lost your consciousness.
- The medicine was strong. - My gosh.
(Please take care of your health.)
How do you want your wife to change?
You sent us the story because you wanted her to change.
I want her to cut it in half. I work 4 days and rest 2 days.
So I hope she will let me rest at least a day.
I want us to make memories with our children on my day off.
Of course. They are still small.
- You heard your husband. - Yes.
He wants to go on family trips.
I don't know.
- Do you feel sorry? - I feel sorry,
- but... - You feel sorry, but...
Isn't half enough though?
- I can't cut it down. - You can't?
Can't you go every other day?
I need to fish to live.
(She's impossible to communicate.)
If your wife doesn't change,
- what will you do? - Right.
If this situation drags on,
it is bound to explode one day.
- Right. - Right.
- I want to ask her this. - Yes.
Do you love your husband?
I love him very much.
What is love?
You take two thirds of that person's salary.
And you only do what you love. Is that love?
No. But I really do love him.
But...
You love him, but will you not love him...
if he doesn't give you money?
(She hesitates.)
(Will that be the end of their love?)
I will still love him.
How would you feel if he asks you to change...
so he doesn't explode?
I am willing to make a small compromise.
- How small? - That's it. That's it.
- But... - I got her. I got her.
(She bit the bait.)
- We got her. - We got her.
She bit it.
(She says she can make a compromise.)
- How small is small? - What if...
- But... - This is so thrilling.
He loves me too.
So this is how it feels. It's so thrilling.
(They understand her feeling perfectly now.)
Be quiet. We have to ask her when she bit the bait.
What compromise will you make?
Out of seven days...
Let's catch her a little more.
- Pull it harder. - A little more.
No.
I will spend time with kids on Sundays.
- Wait. - No fishing on weekends?
That's one less day.
Why don't you spend the weekend with the family?
How is that?
(She should only go fishing on weekdays.)
Will it be a big fish or not?
But when my husband is off work...
He needs to rest.
I need to travel far.
We are telling you to give that up.
For your family and for your lovely husband.
Why don't you spend only weekends together?
You can go fishing five days during the week.
You can spend two days with your children on weekends.
You will spend Saturday and Sunday with the family.
(They continue to persuade her.)
Bite it.
(Will she bite it?)
Bite it.
Okay. I will spend the weekends with my family.
Yes!
It's a big fish.
Okay. I will spend the weekends with my family.
(It's a big fish they have been waiting for.)
- We caught a big one. - Look at her husband.
(He finally starts to smile.)
- Sir. - She's changed.
Her husband is relieved,
and her sister-in-law is more relieved.
Let's celebrate.
- Let's celebrate. - If any of you...
spot these two...
- fishing somewhere... - Fishing?
- on weekends... - It you spot them...
We need to talk to the Fishing Society.
And...
It's going to be tough, but you should stop using...
- You need to stop. - social media.
It's going to be tough at first. But later on,
you will be much, much happier.
I hope you will stop living each day...
- just for show. - You should stop. Please stop.
If you put up posts on weekends,
we will comment on them.
"I hate you. You don't keep your promise."
- "What are you doing there?" - We will do everything.
We will press "hate" button.
- Promise us that. - "Hate" button?
- There's no "hate" button. - We will press "hate" button.
- There's no "hate" button. - Right.
- Isn't there? - I have no idea.
We need "hate" and "not interested" buttons.
(They want more functions.)
- We can leave it in the comments. - You should change the password.
(We will make sure to leave comments.)
I think social media...
is the cause of the money problem.
- She needs pretty clothes and rods. - That's why she spends.
Why don't you reduce the spending?
You can set a limit.
How much will you spend in a month?
I need travel expenses too.
I think 1,000 dollars is enough.
You earn 500 dollars by peeling chestnuts,
so your husband needs to give you only 500 dollars.
- Right. - Right.
(She should only be given 500 dollars.)
Yes.
(He's as wise as Solomon.)
Right.
What do you want to tell her before we end?
I really love you, but this is my last warning.
(This is my last warning.)
He's the man.
- It's time for the guests to vote. - Is this a worry?
Is this a worry?
- You don't need to hide it. - Is that right?
It's a worry.
Right.
(Yu Bin and Sam also think it's a worry.)
Honestly,
this made me reflect on myself.
If I have 100 pairs of jeans,
I think every piece is different.
That's being selfish.
- It made me think that perhaps... - Right. Because you live alone.
I don't know it because there's nobody to tell me this.
I think this is a big worry.
If you sympathize with him,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
(We want to hear about your various concerns.)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
What do you want to tell your husband?
I love you very, very much.
I will think from your perspective...
and try to cut it down.
You love him more than bass, right?
You like him more than webfoot octopus. Right?
You beat fish.
(You beat fish.)
Let's see how many votes he got.
"The Woman's Obsession".
There is a total of 200 people. The last digit is 4.
We got more than 100 votes.
(How many people sympathized with him?)
100...
It's 164.
(He got 164 votes.)
She's surprised.
This story is titled "He Won't Stop Talking".
Hello. I am a housewife in her 20s with sore ears.
My husband sings Park Wan Kyu's "Love over a Thousand Years".
(Even after thousand years)
(I won't)
(Forget you)
(Laughing)
Park Sang Min's "One Love".
(You)
(Fill up my heart)
(What is this about?)
I'm sending this letter because of my husband...
who sings 24 hours a day.
He would wake me up in the middle of the night...
and sing in my ear.
"Honey, I am at the karaoke."
"Please listen to this song."
(You fill my heart)
(I feel tired.)
He would go to a karaoke and sing to me on the phone.
As if that wasn't enough...
"Honey, do you know what happened today?"
"My high school friend. You know him, don't you?"
"He..."
(He goes on and on.)
"Honey. Honey."
"I had kimchi jjigae for lunch today."
(And he goes on and on about it.)
He's very talkative.
He talks a lot too, and my ears can't handle it.
(My ear already hurts.)
"I don't want to hear it."
"What?"
"Did you just say you don't want to hear me?"
"If you don't want to hear me, return the money I gave you."
What?
- "Bring it to me." - He's cheap too.
My mother-in-law even said this.
"Just use separate rooms if you will keep doing this."
She even said that.
He's not an adolescent. Why is he acting like one?
Please make my husband shut his mouth.
(She wants us to make her husband shut his mouth.)
Sam, I think you talk quite a lot.
I don't talk at home.
I think home is...
- where I can be quiet. - Right.
- Some people become quiet. - Right. The silence...
makes me think.
But you keep talking when you are outside. Right?
I don't stop talking when I am outside.
- How about at home? - At home...
(He becomes quiet.)
Even he doesn't talk at home.
His wife sent us this story.
Let's bring her in. Please come on out.
(Who's worried about her loud husband?)
(Won Hye Gyeong)
(Welcome)
Please introduce yourself.
Hello. I am Won Hye Gyeong. I am from Daegu,
and I am 29 years old.
(She's cute.)
- She's the same age as Sam. - Right.
No way.
Say hello.
- Hello. - It's nice to meet you.
It must be tough for you.
(He speaks Korean so well.)
I exaggerated a bit when I was reading your letter.
He's not as bad as I made him sound, is he?
Except for English pop songs... He can't sing in English.
Except for English pop songs,
he sings all kinds of songs from ballad to dance.
He sings 24 hours a day.
- 24 hours? - Nearly.
Except for the time he's sleeping, he sings.
He must work too.
My husband runs a barbecue restaurant...
and a bar.
When he finishes work around 3am and comes home,
he starts singing. When I am sleeping,
he sings into my ear.
The children are asleep by then. My first child is very hard...
to put to sleep.
When the child falls asleep and I try to sleep,
my husband comes home, turns on the lights, and sings.
(He's the typical husband who gives his family a hard time.)
He goes to a karaoke about 3 to 4 times a week.
- He goes there alone. - Alone?
Yes. He goes alone. He spends three hours there.
He calls me and asks me to listen to his song.
When I don't pick up his call,
he video-calls me.
When I ignore that too,
he records his singing.
(There's no getting away.)
- He records it... - He records his singing.
and makes me listen to it.
He connects a Bluetooth mic and sings in the car too.
I always have to drive too.
- He needs to focus on singing. - He has to sing.
He has to sing.
Does he want to be a singer?
Not at all.
If he wants to be a singer, I would support him.
But he doesn't.
Does he sing well?
- My husband? - Yes.
If he sings well, I wouldn't be here.
(She wouldn't be here.)
(There was a real reason why it was painful for her.)
That is very well said.
(I want to know how well he sings.)
I heard he talks a lot too.
Whether I listen or not, he talks for an hour.
Even when I am asleep, he talks to me.
- What does he talk about? - He talks about his day,
about his customers, about what his friends said and so on.
He calls me nearly 30 times a day.
- How many times? - Nearly 30 times.
- In a day? - Yes. In a day.
He keeps calling me until I pick up.
- Do you have to answer it? - I have to answer it.
He gets upset when I don't pick up.
(She feels bitter.)
It's fun if it only happens once in a while.
But if this happens every day...
They say sleep is the best medicine. You need good sleep.
It must be really tough for her.
What worries me is that people get upset...
- when they lack sleep. - That's right.
And your body swells when you don't get enough sleep.
It's not fat.
- It's not fat. - I am swollen, aren't I?
If you sleep well for 2 nights and 3 days,
the swelling will go away. Of course.
Let's meet her husband.
Hello.
Hello. Hello.
Look at him.
(He's very mischievous.)
He looks so mischievous.
Why do you sing so much?
I drink six times a week.
But now that I run a business, I needed to drink less.
So instead of drinking,
I started to sing to de-stress.
- After I shout, I feel... - Do you feel better?
- much better. - You feel better.
But your wife hates it because she can't sleep.
Do you have to keep singing?
Yes.
(I will keep singing.)
(Please save my ears.)
Wait.
- He's very determined. - Totally.
- Why? - Why?
Let me ask you this.
Your wife says her body is swollen because of lack of sleep.
Is she swollen because she ate a lot or because...
She ate a lot.
- This couple is fun. - She ate a lot.
She eats a lot.
Why do you sing in her ear when she's asleep?
She's asleep.
Because she works in the morning,
I don't have time to talk to her.
We never get time to talk. And she's cute...
when she is annoyed.
My goodness. He's so sweet.
This is so sweet.
- She looks cute to me. - He's lying.
- She says he's lying. - She says he's lying.
But you can tell that she doesn't like it.
- I always feel it. I do, - He's determined.
but I can't fix it.
Is it that you can't fix it?
- Or are you doing it intentionally? - I'm doing it intentionally.
- He's doing it intentionally. - What?
I'm doing it intentionally.
(It's torturing for me.)
How much do you sing in a day?
I just keep humming. I am always singing.
You are always singing.
Doesn't your throat hurt when you sing all day?
Singing never hurts my throat.
He must have really strong vocal cords.
- I am a singer, - He should be a singer.
- and it hurts when I sing a lot. - Of course.
How talkative are you?
How talkative am I?
When I sit down, I have to talk for at least three hours.
- Three hours? - Yes.
I need to talk for 2 to 3 hours. That gives me more strength.
You get more strength when you talk and...
- sing more? - Yes.
He's very unusual.
What do you usually sing?
I sing Park Hyo Shin's "After Love". I love that song.
I sing "Crazy for You" once in a while these days.
- "Crazy for You". - How many times...
did you sing "After Love"?
I sang that more than 1,000 times.
- 1,000 times. - He must be really good.
- 1,000 times? - Even the singer...
who sang that song wouldn't have sung it that much.
How about "Crazy for You"?
I am still practicing to sing that song.
- So about 100 times. - He's practicing it.
It's my current favorite.
Everyone must be curious.
How do you sing?
Can you sing the song you've sung 1,000 times?
Or do you want to sing the song you've sung 100 times?
I'll sing the song I've sung 100 times.
Let's hear it.
Please enjoy it.
(He's already excited.)
- Change the mic. - Yes.
(He sings all day long.)
He must love singing.
(He loves singing.)
(He's sung this song 100 times.)
100 times?
(How good is he?)
(Cutting through the court)
(I am heading towards you)
(Did he really...)
(sing it 100 times?)
(I can bet everything)
(He's just been singing all day.)
(For our vow)
(Oh, dear.)
(He sings hard.)
(He can't sing high.)
(His veins are popped out.)
(She's embarrassed for him.)
(Please stop it.)
(He's completely immersed into it.)
(Laughing)
Thank you. Thank you.
I wanted to hear more.
But his wife begged me to stop him.
What did you hate? The nasal voice?
Yes. Tell him how it was.
I hope he will stop singing with his nose.
I get what she means.
You can't sing it well because you sang it only 100 times. Right?
You can sing the one you sang 1,000 times much better, right?
It's because I have cold.
- You have cold? - You have cold?
When he was singing, I looked at his face.
He thinks he's a professional singer.
(I am a singer.)
He must sing the song he sang 1,000 times very well.
Let's make him sing without the accompaniment.
Use the mic.
- I will start. - Start.
(Is his voice...)
(half air and half sound?)
(He sings from the top of his lung.)
(All the power comes from his nose.)
I am still standing where you left
(He's very serious.)
(But people are laughing.)
(In my heart)
(He can't breathe.)
(You said you sang it 1,000 times.)
(People crack up.)
I quietly cry again
(She's sick of it.)
After I loved you
(He finishes with the nasal sound.)
- He's cute. - Thank you.
Thank you.
I love you
(He copies the man.)
Actually,
I can't tell.
It might be because he's not my wife.
How would you feel if you have a friend like him?
- He's fun. He brightens... - Right.
- the mood. - He's got a cheerful personality.
I like him.
But if he keeps singing like that all the time,
I wouldn't see him for a while...
if he keeps doing that.
Other people suffer because of him.
- Who? - Really? We enjoyed his singing.
Is it because we only heard it once?
Yes. When there are no customers,
he takes an employee out to sing.
He calls a friend after a friend.
- How many friends does he have? - He has a lot of friends.
He talks on the phone for over an hour.
He even chats with other parents.
He goes to the daycare center and chats with the director.
Other parents...
One time, he called my acquaintance...
so often...
that her husband told him to stop calling.
- Her husband said that. - Yes. He told him to stop calling.
What does he talk about?
It makes me angry. He talks about my weight.
- What? - My body.
(What did you say?)
(Why does he talk about his wife's body to strangers?)
He talks about my body.
He talks about your body, not his body.
- Is he out of his mind? - Why does he do that?
He talks about how much each of my legs must weigh.
My goodness.
Each of your legs?
- He talks about how much it weighs. - He talks about how much it weighs.
- That's ridiculous. - What else does he talk about?
He talks about our fights...
and conversations.
He told people that I jumped him.
- Does he talk about those things? - Yes.
It sounds like...
her husband has the loosest tongue.
Why would you tell people about your private matters?
- Seriously. - Why would you do that?
I told my friends secretly.
Those talks should stay...
- between you and your wife. - Seriously.
Who did you tell that...
your wife jumped you?
Why did you do that?
- I mean... - Who did you tell?
He doesn't even remember because he told so many people.
I don't understand him.
(Please think from my perspective.)
Who do you call every day?
I call everyone in my contact list once a day.
(He calls everyone in his contact list.)
I call everyone.
How many people are in your contact list?
I have about 30 to 40 close friends.
I call them to say hello...
- once a day. - You do that once a day.
It must be hard on those around him.
They have to take his call every day.
That's why his acquaintances are here with him.
- There they are. - They are on the contact list.
You look very tired.
- They are worn out. - Their ears turned red.
Since he sings in front of me, it's impossible to go home early.
Where does he sing?
In the car.
- Does he sing in the car? - Yes.
- He makes you sit down and sings. - Yes.
For how long does he sing?
He doesn't stop until he is satisfied.
Do you sit still in the car?
When I plead with him to take me home,
he goes, "Okay. Let's go."
He parks the car near my home and says,
"Let me sing a few more songs."
(Shocked)
- Does he do that in the car? - Yes.
It takes 10 minutes to go home on foot.
(It takes 10 minutes to go home on foot.)
- He sings for an hour. - He sings for an hour.
Does he sing like he did earlier...
for an hour in the car?
I have heard him sing Park Sang Min's song 70 times.
It must be hard on you.
(He should run away.)
All right. Let's talk to his friend.
Has he always been talkative?
His nickname is "Mouth Fighter" among his friends.
Mouth Fighter!
(It's a witty nickname.)
- Mouth Fighter! - Mouth Fighter!
He talks too much.
How much does he talk to earn a nickname like that?
When we meet,
he talks for an hour or two.
Then he calls me to ask if I got home safely...
and talks until 5 to 6am in the morning.
- I see. - It's tiring to put up with him.
In that case,
does he really share stories about his family and his wife...
with his friends?
He told me that his wife was sleeping one day...
when she put her leg on him. Since it weighed a lot,
he almost suffocated.
(She clenches her teeth.)
He talks about these small things.
This is unbelievable.
- Does he share those stories? - Yes.
I think it will annoy his wife, but he doesn't stop.
(He makes fun of his wife's body for his entertainment.)
Your parents-in-law are here.
They even ordered you to use separate rooms. Where are you?
- Hello. - Hello.
- Hello, ma'am. - Hello.
Is that your husband next to you?
- I see. - Hello.
He is taciturn.
- Ma'am. - Hello.
- You are very skinny. - Yes.
Did you become skinny because of your son?
We live on the 2nd floor and they live on the 3rd floor.
He comes home around 5am.
His son sleeps and his wife pulls a blanket over her face...
because she is so stressed out.
Unaware of that, my son sings happily.
I told them to use separate rooms,
but my son doesn't listen.
He continues to sing.
Who do you think...
he resembles more, you or your husband?
- Your son. - My husband is pretty quiet.
(Taciturn)
He hasn't said a word.
Hye Gyeong says he resembles me.
- Who? - Hye Gyeong.
- Really? What do you think? - She says he resembles me.
I don't agree with her,
but she says he resembles me.
- Let's hear from her husband. - That's a good idea.
(Talking)
- Hold on. - She says...
(Please give him the microphone.)
- Sir. - She talks a lot.
She talks a lot.
- Sir. - She talks a lot.
(He stands up.)
Sir. In any case,
you must have suffered a lot.
From whom did he get his talkative nature?
Your wife doesn't know.
He takes after my wife.
(It's obvious.)
Is your wife talkative?
- Yes. She is very talkative. - She is very talkative.
When I go to a karaoke with her,
she sings by herself.
She's talkative.
Do you think Hye Gyeong has a worry?
Do you think she is exaggerating?
I feel bad for her.
(I feel bad.)
I think...
men should be taciturn.
He talks too much. Even when I am watching,
he says that his wife gained weight.
Does he say that in front of you?
(It's humiliating.)
Do Hye Gyeong and her husband fight often?
They fight often.
They keep talking about a divorce.
Who talks about a divorce first?
Both of them talk about it.
"Mother, I can't live with him. I will get a divorce."
It worries me because they have two children.
That's like driving a nail...
into their hearts.
From time to time, my husband makes blunt remarks.
When he gets angry, he says,
"You are like a pig. I don't want to live with you."
(You are like a pig. I don't want to live with you.)
(Shocked)
My goodness.
(He is mean.)
Sir.
Is it true? Did you really say those words...
to your wife?
You know,
my wife is the same.
Don't blame it on your wife.
She never trusts me. She always doubts me.
She is very doubtful.
Since I like to sing, I go to a karaoke.
When I call her after I am done,
she goes, "You were with a woman, weren't you?"
She always doubts me.
- He is flirtatious. - He is flirtatious.
He refuses to go to a supermarket if his hair is disheveled.
- Does he need to make it neat? - Yes.
To make himself look nice,
he uses thousands of dollars.
(He uses thousands of dollars.)
Can you give us the exact amount?
1,000 to 2,000 dollars.
He goes shopping often.
However, he scolds me when I use money.
How much do you use?
Since I earn money, he asks me to pay...
the entirety of our living expenses.
One time, I was so angry...
that I didn't pay for gas for three months.
We ended up not having gas in the house.
I had to talk to my husband...
to make him pay for it.
Doesn't he give you money for the living expenses?
He only takes the children to a mart from time to time.
I also pay for the children's insurances.
- What is this? - What is this?
(A new worry appears.)
- What is this? - What is this?
We started off with fun stories about singing and talking,
- but this is a new worry. - Seriously.
Why won't you give her money for the living expenses?
What is this? What is wrong with you?
She buys 3 or 4 things when she only needs 1 thing.
When I told her to spend less money,
she became angry and said that...
she won't take any money from me.
A married couple shouldn't fight over money.
Ever since she began to earn money,
she has treated me differently.
Can you give us some examples?
She used to greet me when I came home from work.
Now, she doesn't even look at me.
She doesn't greet me.
We are like strangers now.
She needs to be in a good condition to be nice to you.
You keep her up all night with your singing.
She can't greet you with a smile...
when she is tired.
I act that way to make up with my wife.
- I... - He wants to make up with his wife.
- He wants her love. - She doesn't love me as much.
Are you upset because she doesn't love you as much?
I am very upset.
You speak ill of your wife...
- no matter where you go. - That's right.
How can you expect her to treat you warmly?
- It's ridiculous. - It makes no sense.
It's not like that.
You need to change first.
I know that,
but my wife can change first, too.
Do you want this to go on forever?
(He is too proud.)
(Frustrated)
Because I am busy raising children at home,
I have no way to relieve my stress.
My husband says he needs to relieve his stress...
and goes to bars and karaokes. Seeing him play around like that...
makes me...
You become angry. You think, "What about me?"
It sounds like the two of you have vastly different schedules...
and cycles.
How does your typical day go?
- I wake up at 2pm. - 2pm.
- Okay. - 2pm.
I wash up and get ready to go out. The children return...
from the daycare center at 5:30pm.
I play with them for 30 minutes, go out, and work until 3am.
Then you go out to play.
At what time do you return home?
5am.
- 5am? - Yes.
Hye Gyeong, how does your day go? At what time do you wake up?
I wake up at 9am, send my children to the daycare center,
and begin to work on the deliveries at 10am.
Then I get off work and bring children home.
I spend some time with them before I go...
to my husband's restaurant to work. My first child waits up for me.
After I give my first child a bath, it's somewhere between 1am and 3am.
(Somewhere between 1am and 3am)
Does your child wait up for you?
My child never goes to bed alone.
It's stressful.
Of course it is.
- The cycles are too different. - They are too different.
You have no time to eat together.
Have you talked to your husband about how you feel?
When I try to talk to him, he says, "Let's talk later."
I even went to a psychiatrist...
for a consultation.
The doctor said I have a severe depression.
I got medication for it.
He said he is more depressed.
(I am more depressed.)
You should listen to your wife.
Because we fight every time,
he says that we should split up...
when the children become adults after 15 years.
(He says that we should split up.)
My goodness.
- When the children become adults? - That's right.
(My goodness.)
(There is a chasm between them.)
- He talks without thinking. - What does he mean by that?
He says we should enjoy our lives separately.
(I can't believe him.)
I was serious about that.
I don't ask for much.
When I go home after working hard,
I want her to look at me...
and greet me.
You say you don't ask for much,
but Hye Gyeong is doing a lot for you.
Think about it. She looks after the two children.
She earns money at her work.
She helps out at your restaurant, right?
(Two children, work, and restaurant)
After work, you sing for hours to relieve your stress.
Your wife has to come home right away...
- to look after the children. - You are right.
When she finally falls asleep after putting the children to bed,
you sing and wake her up.
When does she get to sleep?
I think she is Superwoman.
What do you think?
(Hye Gyeong is suffering by herself.)
I feel bad.
What makes you feel bad?
To be honest,
no one had put it so bluntly...
as you have just now.
You called her Wonder Woman.
(He didn't know she was suffering so much.)
I feel bad.
(I really feel bad.)
Wasn't it your first time...
to hear each other out?
- It was our first time. - That's right.
- It was your first time. - That's the problem.
Why don't you use this opportunity to have a conversation?
What do you call him?
It's not a swear word, is it?
You are the same age.
- So and so's dad. - Yong Han.
Yong Han? That won't do.
Calling him by his name could worsen the problem.
What do you want your wife to call you?
- Honey. - Honey.
- Grant his wish. - Grant his wish.
- Do it this once. - That's right.
- Honey. - Go ahead.
Honey.
(What does she want to ask him?)
Honey, are we really getting a divorce after 15 years?
(Are we really getting a divorce after 15 years?)
We won't get a divorce.
We won't intervene. Talk among yourselves.
He said there won't be a divorce.
(His husband's honest words make her cry.)
She must have been worried.
They have trust and love deep inside their hearts.
(Sad)
"Honey."
(Ask him more questions.)
I don't know what to ask.
- Why don't you initiate this time? - That's right.
Your wife is flustered because this never happens.
- That's why she is crying. - You never listened to her.
What do you want your husband to call you?
- "Honey"? - Yes.
- "Honey"? "Darling"? - "Honey".
"Honey".
Honey. Darling.
(Honey. Darling.)
(Embarrassed)
(Both of them tear up.)
I am so sorry.
Do you have any questions for her?
Do you still love me?
"Do you still love me?"
(He always longed for his wife's love.)
I get obsessive because I like you.
I love you.
(I love you.)
(They are bad at expressing it, but they love each other dearly.)
(Don't say that you will get a divorce.)
Let's ask each other one more question.
What do you want to ask him?
"Honey".
Will you love me even if I don't lose weight?
It must have been stressful to hear you talk about her weight.
You shouldn't make your wife ask this kind of a question.
I will love you as you are.
You don't have to lose weight. You are pretty.
(Weeping)
- Right now... - He is crying.
Hye Gyeong's mother-in-law is crying.
It seems like...
Hye Gyeong's parents-in-law...
feel bad.
They are shedding tears.
Please say a few words to your son and your daughter-in-law.
Sir, please say a few words.
Hye Gyeong.
(Hold up the microphone.)
(Laughing)
I am sorry...
my son treated you poorly.
(I am sorry my son treated you poorly.)
(It's not his fault.)
From now on, I will scold him a lot...
so that you can live happily.
(Let's live happily.)
Hye Gyeong, let's go!
(Hye Gyeong, let's go!)
(She has her parents-in-law's support.)
Let's start with BTOB. Do you think it's a worry?
It's not a worry anymore.
That's what I think.
I also don't think it's a worry.
If they stay considerate and say nice words to each other,
this worry will dissipate soon.
Since they are resolving it, I will say it's not a worry.
Thanks to the practice they had today,
they will get better at having a conversation.
That's why I don't think it's a worry.
Change the way you address him.
If you call him by his name, it will be easier to swear at him.
It will be easier to forget the love.
Tae Gyun is much younger than me,
- but I never talk to him casually. - She is right.
He is my coworker and I respect that.
I respect another woman's husband.
If you don't respect your husband, other people will do the same.
- That's right. - Food Fighter.
- Those are wise words. - It wasn't Food Fighter.
(She always thinks about food.)
Where did "Food Fighter" come from?
She always thinks about food.
If you think it's a worry that made her suffer for a long time,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
Please say a few words to your in-laws...
who always support you.
Father and Mother, we will live well without getting a divorce.
Mother, you asked for another grandchild.
I will think about it if our relationship improves.
(She will think about having a third child.)
(Let's be happy.)
Show us the result.
(The result)
Currently, the first place has 164 votes.
(Will the worry get more than 164 votes?)
Will the worry get more than 100 votes?
All right.
(95 votes)
Hello, I am a man in my 50s who fears getting off work.
(Ringing)
"Where are you? Did you get off work?"
"When are you coming?"
(Ringing)
"Why aren't you home yet? What? Will you go drinking?"
"Come home right this instant!"
The person who looks for me every day is...
my 17-year-old son.
Does he talk to his dad that way?
My son is papa's boy.
"Dad, you are home."
(Kissing)
"You will sleep with me tonight, right?"
"Pat me until I fall asleep."
My son can't sleep without me.
Then this happens.
"Honey, is he sleeping?"
"Yes. Don't worry. I barely put him to bed."
"Honey. Let me..."
"give you your long-awaited hug."
"Dad!"
"What are you doing here? You have to sleep with me!"
He's up.
"Forget it. you two just go sleep together."
- She's upset. - It's been 10 years...
since we were forced to sleep separately.
She's going to divorce me soon.
Son. Let Daddy and Mommy sleep together.
(That's unbelievable.)
What do you think?
My brother was like that.
He shared the room with Mom until he went to high school.
He was like that even when he went to university.
But the funny thing is...
- when he brings his girlfriend... - A girlfriend?
Yes. He used my room.
(What?)
He changed the color of the curtains to what he wanted.
But he still slept with Mom.
Yes.
I want to ask for the details, but I'll pass.
(This show is for viewers from 15.)
(Okay. I'll stop here.)
Let's bring in our guest.
(Who's the man worried about his son?)
(Lim Jae Bang)
Your son wants to sleep with you only?
- He's all grown up. - Yes.
He always wants to sleep in the same bed with me.
(Why only his dad?)
Do you have one son?
My baby's the youngest among 2 sons and 1 daughter.
You call him baby when he's in grade 10.
My baby was born after seven months.
- 2 months premature? - 2 months premature.
(The baby boy was born 2 months premature.)
He was born a premature baby and weighed 1.5kg.
He stayed in the incubator for a while.
(His son was born premature.)
I'm attached to him more than my other two children,
and I feel bad for him.
(That's understandable.)
You've been sleeping separately for over 10 years.
Why do you sleep separately?
My son doesn't let me sleep with his mom.
- Really? - Why?
He wants only me to sleep with him.
(Their son keeps them from sleeping together?)
My wife's been running a karaoke for 10 years.
- She runs a karaoke? - Yes.
So when she comes home at 3am,
- I'm already... - You're already sleeping with him.
sleeping with him.
So she goes to bed alone.
But once in a while, I'd like to sleep with her.
All adults do it.
We were making love, then he walked in...
- without a knock. - He just walked in.
We were flustered.
He lay between us and said, "What are you doing?"
"Why are you naked?"
(Why are you naked?)
There was an intense love story.
He took his clothes off...
because it was a very hot day.
- Right. - It was early July.
Wouldn't he listen if you want to separate the rooms?
He's all grown up now. He's in grade 10.
- He said he's scared. - He's scared?
- To sleep alone? - He's scared to sleep alone.
He's in grade 10.
So he doesn't let me turn the light off when we go to bed.
- When he goes to bed, - What do you do?
- I put my arm like this. - Arm?
He pillows his head on my arm, and I put one leg up.
You put your leg up. You put your leg up here.
- I tap him. - Tap.
- And I pat his head. - You pat him.
(Tae Gyun's sleeping.)
(I want to buy any eyes that hasn't seen this scene.)
That's a pretty good father and son relationship.
Your son pillows his head on your arm and goes like, "Dad."
- He kisses me and says he loves me. - That's good.
He shows his love.
It feels like an obsession because it's too much.
When I work in the office, he calls me around 2pm.
"What are you doing, Dad? What time are you off, Dad?"
He tells me to come home early without drinking.
(That sounds like a newlywed couple.)
Does he nag you?
- Of course. - And tells you that you're late?
He says I'm late and accuses me of drinking.
People who just started watching Hello...
might think it's about a couple.
Not at all. It's about his son in grade 10.
Let's meet his son.
Hi, there. You look cute.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello.
(He keeps saying hello.)
- What's your name? - He's cute.
I'm 17 years old, Lim Joon Seo.
Hi, Lim Joon Seo.
Whose idea was it to dress like that?
- An overall and all. - I wonder.
- Do you like those clothes? - Yes.
Oh, you do?
(I like his sense of fashion.)
Your father's on Hello because he's worried. Do you understand him?
A little bit.
- You do? - A little bit.
A little bit? In what sense?
Dad wants to sleep with Mom,
but I understand that I get in their way.
Why do you want to sleep with your dad?
- Right. - Because I'm scared.
- You're scared? - Scared?
- Some people are easily frightened. - What are you scared of?
- When I put the blanket over me, - Goodness.
I'm afraid a ghost would grab me.
Then don't put the blanket over you.
- But... - "But..."
I have a trauma.
- Trauma? - What kind of trauma?
I got into a serious accident when I was in elementary school.
Since then, I'm scared of everything.
He was 9. He was in 2nd grade at the time.
He got off the academy bus in the apartment complex.
A lady didn't see him and ran over him.
He was dragged underneath the car.
She dragged him for 20 to 30m.
That was dangerous. My goodness.
Fortunately, he was wearing a backpack.
- He must've lied down. - Yes.
- It was on his back. - It was like this.
- That was fortunate. - He was dragged like this.
- His backpack saved him. - It saved him.
Why does it have to be your dad?
You could sleep with other people in your family.
Mom hates my sleeping habits.
What's your sleeping habit?
I snore pretty loud.
You snore?
He must've been tired from studying.
But you look like a baby.
- What about your brother? - We don't have a good relationship.
I just don't sleep with my sister.
- Because she's his sister. - Right.
So you have never slept alone?
If my dad is drunk,
I sleep alone because it's upsetting.
"Upsetting".
You sleep because it's upsetting?
Yes. I put the blanket up to my head.
I sleep with the lights and the TV on.
If you keep doing that, you'll get used to it,
and you will be able to sleep alone.
Really?
(He's not interested.)
I think so.
That's what you can do.
(I'm going to sleep with Dad.)
He's more like a wife than a son.
- That's true. - That's true.
If he acts like my wife, it's fine,
but sometimes he treats me like his servant.
- Servant? - Servant?
"Dad."
"Drive me to school."
- "Drive me?" - Yes.
- That's the way he talks to you? - Yes.
He calls me when I'm resting at home.
"Come pick me up."
Is that a trend?
He's pretty much a prince.
Sometimes...
he treats me like a slave beyond a servant.
How?
He just stays there and orders me.
"Dad. I'm hungry. Get me food."
- "Get me water." - What?
"Dad. Find my cellphone."
- "Find my backpack." - Goodness.
He tells me to find his clothes he lost or find his glasses.
He wants me to do all kinds of things for him.
You're his assistant.
- That's... - What?
I didn't mean it.
It'd be weird if I meant it.
"How dare you talk to your dad like that?"
What if your dad says that?
(Laughing)
Then what would you say?
(Laughing)
You'll just laugh?
(What is he doing?)
What is he doing right now?
- He's sorry. - Oh, he's sorry.
Don't just let it go.
Your father is here because...
- he thinks it's a worry. - Yes.
If there's anything you want to say, you have to tell us.
- Yes. - Promise.
- Okay. Good. - Also,
why did you ask your dad...
to get you water when you can get it yourself?
Sometimes I'd like to joke around,
so I told him to bring me water.
And he did bring me water.
(And he did bring me water.)
Have you ever thought...
you're being too rude to your dad?
I have.
But I can't fix it.
Do you believe that your dad...
would never get angry at you?
Yes, I think so.
I think that's why I do that.
- I see. - I think you made him...
- like that. - Yes.
- Right. - Because...
- you kept calling him baby. - Right.
(My baby...)
(My baby is the youngest.)
(He calls his grown-up son baby.)
Because that's how you call him, and you put up with him,
he doesn't realize what's wrong,
and you ended up here today.
You spoiled him.
Have you ever scolded him?
Of course. I scolded him warmly.
- Warmly? Sternly. - Sternly.
- I hit him too. - Really?
- Then what does he say? - How does he respond?
He's like, "Who do you think you are?"
"You're not the boss of me." And he complains.
When we have an argument,
he tells me to apologize first.
- He tells you to apologize first? - He does?
Yes.
When I say sorry,
he says it's not sincere. He tells me to apologize sincerely...
again.
I have no other choice, so I say sorry again,
then he's finally okay.
You soothe him like a baby.
Then he says sorry.
I wonder how he treats other family members.
- Hello. - Hello, ma'am.
Hello.
He finds it inconvenient to sleep separately.
What about you?
He doesn't feel like a family.
I told him that he felt like a stranger to me.
He said, "Okay. I'll sleep with you from tomorrow night."
He slept with me for two days,
but the next day, I saw him sleeping with our son when I came home.
(He was sleeping with his son again.)
He could've gotten out of the room after tucking him in.
I think he likes to sleep with Joon Seo too.
(He seems to like to sleep with his son.)
He seems to like to sleep with his son too?
Do you prefer sleeping with your son?
No. That's a misunderstanding.
I prefer sleeping with my wife.
Why would I like to sleep with a grown-up man?
Does Joon Seo treat his dad and the other family members...
including you differently?
He thinks his dad would do anything for him,
and I do only the things I should do.
Therefore, he probably feels more comfortable around his dad.
What are the things your husband does but you don't for your son?
I didn't know, but Joon Seo wanted to become an idol singer.
- An idol singer? - Yes. He still wants to do that,
but he gained too much weight.
(She revealed his secret.)
(Joon Seo is taken aback.)
(Mom, you can't tell them that.)
- Look how he reacts. - He gained a lot of weight.
So he started taking singing and dancing classes...
- without telling me. - Gosh.
He also said he wanted to get plastic surgery.
- Plastic surgery? - Yes.
His eyes...
- were smaller than they are now. - Joon Seo is taken aback.
So he had his eyes done. Please continue.
He said he could get a 500-dollar discount during his school break.
So I told him to have his eyes done since he could get a discount.
Stop glaring at your mom like that.
- Don't do that. - I see too much of the whites.
- You look so scary. - Did you have eyelid surgery?
He had his eyes done twice.
- Really? - At first, he had...
- lateral canthoplasty. - He's tapping his mom.
- Look. He's tapping his mom. - Why?
- He's tapping his mom. - Why are you doing that?
(He must've been impatient.)
"Mom, that's enough. Please stop."
He had lateral canthoplasty, but it stuck back.
So he had another surgery one year later, last winter.
My husband told me that it cost 1,000 dollars.
So I believed him, but it turned out he spent 1,400 dollars.
- Oh, no. - My goodness.
Since my husband does unnecessary things for him,
he doesn't ask me for anything but nags his dad...
while following his dad around and giving him a hard time.
I can't believe he's in 10th grade.
(I brought this upon myself.)
Their daughter is also here.
As his sister, what do you think of this situation?
He treats our dad like his friend. He seems rude.
And my dad does everything Joon Seo asks for.
I think that's also a problem.
I heard he tells his dad to apologize to him first.
What do they do when they fight?
- They yell at each other. - What?
- He yells at his dad? - No way.
And they hit each other lightly too.
When he behaves like that, I think he's crossed the line.
Let's say your mom hit you.
Would you push her just like you do to your dad?
No.
I see. What if it were your brother? You wouldn't hit him back, right?
- I'm afraid of him. - He's afraid of his brother.
- He's afraid of his brother. - Then you do that only to your dad?
He's the person who is the nicest to you.
Yes.
- Your dad... - Do you feel sorry at all?
Yes, I'm sorry to him.
- You're sorry to your dad. - He seems to know.
It seems to me that his dad had gone too far.
- To make things right, - That's right.
- his dad must scold him harshly. - Right.
His dad wants to discipline him, but he doesn't know how.
- He's gone too far. - That's right.
I think he regrets very much.
Exactly.
One day, I got a call from his teacher.
I heard that he didn't listen to his teacher, slept during his classes,
and it was hard to teach classes because he's distracting.
I was asked to discipline him.
So I talked to him when he came home.
He promised he would behave himself, but he didn't keep his word.
Since he doesn't listen to me or his teacher,
I'm worried if he could get along with others after graduation.
I thought, "This is not the reason I raised him with so much affection."
I became ashamed of myself.
As his dad, you must be distressed and feel bad for him.
I understand that your heart is aching.
Ma'am, please tell us how you want your husband and son...
to improve their relationship from a mother's perspective.
Joon Seo doesn't act rudely to other people except for his dad.
He's also very considerate. He behaves like that only to his dad.
My husband should discipline Joon Seo seriously...
instead of arguing with him,
and Joon Seo should know that he'd done a wrong thing.
I think you have to be strict to help your son change.
You're right.
- Tell your son firmly from today. - Okay.
My youngest son, Joon Seo.
Do what you can do by yourself from now on.
Please don't give me any more hard times.
Sir, can you speak more strictly?
- Sir, he's not getting married now. - You sound like you're asking.
It feels like he's enlisting in the military soon.
I think you should tell him firmly instead of asking him a favor.
Joon Seo, sleep alone from now on,
so I can sleep with your mom.
And don't make me run your errands.
Take care of things on your own.
Do you hear me?
(Do things on your own.)
- That's how you should talk to him. - "Do you hear me?"
- Right. - One more thing. You should...
never call your son baby again.
- Please stop doing it. - Okay.
- That's why he acts like a baby. - That's right.
When you call someone "Pretty", she'd act accordingly,
but if you call her "Fatty", she would get angry.
Your son will continue to nag you to buy things he wants.
- Yes. - What will you do?
I'll refuse it firmly.
- No matter what? To the end? - Yes.
- For my son's future. - Of course.
- I'll overcome it. - That's great.
I will do that from now on.
Your dad decided to come here...
because he is worried about your future.
- Right? He loves you very much. - Yes.
And he desperately wants you to change.
Do you think you can change the way your dad wants?
Yes. Yes, I do.
- You won't go back on your word? - No, I won't.
Can you sleep alone just as your dad wants?
(Then will you sleep alone?)
(What could...)
(his answer be?)
I will sleep alone.
(He feels proud of his son.)
(You can do it!)
I'll be good. I'm sorry. I'll do my best from now on.
Can I trust you?
- Please trust me. - Okay.
Most importantly, never enter our room without knocking.
(It's the most important thing.)
- That's funny. - Sir.
You could've locked the door. Why didn't you lock the door?
I didn't have time to lock it.
(I didn't have a single second to waste.)
(He's quite firm about things like that.)
Among all the things he said, I can relate to this the most.
Obviously, he didn't have time to lock the door.
He didn't have time to lock the door.
Let's start the voting now.
- I think it's a worry. - I see.
I think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry too.
I think you should do things on your own...
if you want to make your dreams come true.
I also think it's a worry.
If the other family members guide, encourage, and help him,
- I believe he'll improve himself. - Exactly.
Press the button, please.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Joon Seo, do you have anything to say to your dad?
- Be a man. - "Dad."
Dad, I'll be a good son from now on.
Why did he laugh like that at the end?
But he spoke in a little higher tone.
- He sounds better. - It's not easy to do that.
Please show us the result of "The Clingy Man".
(The result)
("The Clingy Man")
Did he get more than 100 votes?
It's over 100.
- 100... 123... - 113?
133 votes.
(He got 133 votes.)
"The Woman's Obsession" is this week's winner.
The winner gets a cash prize. Congratulations.
Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
("Difference" by Jung In)